Wednesday, May 4, 2011

According to bylaws....

     I didn't know about the situation at church until last Wednesday.  Apparently, the Cochran's were passing out literature at church on Easter Sunday, to some of the other members. They asked them not to read the letters until they got home (the letter is posted on the fundamental forum and the action jax news comments section).  Somebody gave their letter to Preacher and a big yelling match was started in the parking lot.  I personally did not see it, but they same story keeps getting repeated, so I'm pretty sure that's how it went down.  So, one of the girls from the video confronted Preacher and said he lied to her.  I was told she had heard about the tape about a year and a half ago, but preacher said that no such tape existed. Now action jax news is reporting that there is an investigation and that there is a tape.

    Nobody is talking about it, Wednesday came and he just talked about members leaving.  He didn't mention the tape or any names.  Now, I don’t know what the deal is, I've never seen a tape, but the Bible says that the pulpit is to be blameless.  If Bro. Greg did do this, then he has no business being a pastor.  I hope and pray it's not true.  I love him very much and he's always been good to me.  Unfortunately, he's not perfect-he's a sinner saved by grace, just like the rest of us.  This tape was supposedly recorded 10 years ago.  He may very well be a changed man, but that doesn't mean that there are no consequences for his actions. 

     The biggest problem I have is the cover up.  According to our bylaws:

C. Discipline. Discipline is that procedure including Christian teaching, training, admonition
and rebuke, both private and public, with the view to helping the individual grow in grace,
mature in the individual faith, break off from worldliness and live wholly for the Lord. At such
time that a member shall refuse to receive such help it will be necessary for the church to
exclude him from the membership.

Section 1. Differences between individuals or sins not generally known, the
wronged party shall follow Matt. 18:15-17. A person bringing a matter into the
public or before the church before following this scripture shall be subject to
rebuke.

Section 2. Matters of formal accusation shall be:
1. Public sins or sins known by the church or the general public.
2. Holding and persistently propagating false doctrine.
3. Any failure to abide by the church covenant; such as failure to
attend the three weekly services without reasonable excuse,
failure to contribute to the church, failure to be reconciled to
another member, etc.
Section 3. Charges must be made in writing, Signed and presented to the
church clerk. The church clerk shall give at least one week's notice in writing,
with charges stated, to the accused member to appear at a designated meeting
for a hearing. If the accused member fails to appear, the church may proceed.
The accused may call to his aid another church member to speak for him.
Section 4. A member formally accused is automatically released from any office
or position, cannot speak at business meetings except at the hearing, and is
deprived of his right of vote. 


The issue has been brought up and nobody on staff is dealing with it-we're not even allowed to talk about it.  Berean Baptist Church is supposed to be a BIBLE BELIEVING Baptist church.  We're not even following the scriptures!  That's a problem.  People are too scared to bring it up! 

MEMBERS! Please join this blog! Spread the word!  You can speak freely and do it without anybody knowing who you are!  I know people are waiting for school to be over, so that they can take their kids and leave, but that doesn't fix the problem!  We've got to grow in numbers so that we can confront the issues and bring them to light!

2 comments:

  1. Everything in this post matches what I have heard as well. The message from the pulpit is that to even speak of this or look in to the matter is to be choosing sides. And just so you understand Pastor Tom Neals opinion of the ones who are taking this stand. I give you a quote from Sunday night’s service "these people are along the same lines as those who crucified Jesus". First of all if he were to hear a "rumor" of a church member even if it was a staff member doing the things that are claimed to be on this tape you had better believe he would at the least look in to it. I have heard him say from the pulpit many times that he takes the stand he does for the kids in the teen group and in the nursery. Well I believed him until now because the problem with a cover up is it always makes you wonder what else gets covered up. Well, members of this church have been allegedly victimized the least you could do is let us know exactly what is going on. Also I would like for his church to be around so that my children could attend and that won’t happen if all our property is taken away due to mismanagement of funds. Is that actually happening? I don’t know but there is no way to find out because it is all hidden and a secret, The Bible says men love darkness because their deeds are evil so let’s have these matters come to light. I am sorry for rambling but I do have a lot of emotion invested in this church and I don’t wish to see it fail.

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  2. I also think many members are waiting to see what becomes of the investigation, if the states's attorney's office determines a crime was committed then how can preacher NOT address the issue, whether the sol has expired or not? How could the members want to keep GN or preacher in the pulpit? I for one am sick of all of this rumor business, this needs to be settled one way or another. How could the members unite without getting shut down before we even get started?

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